Oct 14, 2022We just want to be seen“I think I’m going to share it,” I said to myself. — For those of you who don’t know this about me, part of the way I engage with and invite story is through working with people who want to realign their relationship with Stuff. I call the process Streamlining (you can read some words about the Whys that come up as…Letters8 min readLetters8 min read
Aug 27, 2022Recently, I sent an email.Recently, I sent an email. The rumours are true. But, seriously. I showed up for myself big time by sending an email to someone who had not maintained a safe emotional space that they had initially invited me into. I honoured my self-care and my needs. I could have ‘protected’…Communication4 min readCommunication4 min read
Jul 11, 2022Walking among giantsI am a tall person by societal average. That has meant I have developed a relationship with my body in space, shaped by most of the messaging I received growing up stating that I was ‘too’: Too tall. Too big. Too heavy. Too strong. Too much. The other day I…Perspective3 min readPerspective3 min read
Mar 8, 20223 games of 20 Questions: IWD2022I happen to co-exist with someone whose birthday coincides with International Women’s Day. I love to share words of witness with her on this day where the world’s women are celebrated while I also get to celebrate the otherworldly being she is. I am currently in a phase of absorption…Iwd20222 min readIwd20222 min read
Feb 7, 2022To Shes & HersEveryday is the day to celebrate women and their power. It’s officially International Women’s Day…in March. I wrote some words a couple of years ago on that day in order to honour all Shes and Hers and I thought I’d share it here and schedule it for March 8th, but…Women2 min readWomen2 min read
Jan 21, 2022Important, words areI want to share some words about…words…and how they can be utilised as a low-stakes access point for being intentional, loving and present when we communicate and connect, and choosing curiosity to practise empathy. The simple fact is that we are responsible for the words we use. And every single…Curiosity6 min readCuriosity6 min read
Dec 17, 2021Online Streamlining: lowering the stakesThere are myriad avenues for storing your various things online (or on devices in general)… Your email inboxes and folders Cloud storage (your Google Drives/Onedrives and what-have-you) Your phone, tablet, laptop/desktop We all keep — or metaphorically chuck — Stuff into our technological cubbyholes. Such as: those documents you had…Streamlining4 min readStreamlining4 min read
Nov 25, 2021What’s in a name, anyway?I’m pretty new to the scene when it comes to having a website and the facility for people to sign up for things. I’m certainly new to the realm of offering the workshop I created and coaching services. I’m even more certainly new to the concept of writing words, which…Newsletter5 min readNewsletter5 min read
Sep 10, 2021A word on the page(1)I can’t remember where I heard the following question, or the exact wording for that matter, but it was put forward as a way of acknowledging our personal preference for getting started/inspired in creative pursuits. Do you prefer to sit before a blank piece of paper, or a piece of…Choices5 min readChoices5 min read
Jun 14, 2021She Sings to Me — A poemI wrote a poem for AC. It’s dedicated to her. It is also for all and any women who don’t feel seen; who do not feel or have not felt witnessed, honoured, cherished, desired. I know, unfortunately, that is true for a lot of women, which makes me sad; it also makes…Poetry3 min readPoetry3 min read